Disclaimer: As a parent helping parents, by offering advocacy support, I strive to offer valuable guidance and accurate updated information. However, please note that this newsletter is not intended as legal advice nor medical advice. It's presented for informational purposes and entertainment only. Always conduct your own research and seek legal counsel when necessary. These newsletters aim to empower parents by shedding light on the IEP process, preparing for IEP meetings, and so you can evaluate the effectiveness of the IEP for your child's needs.

You're a parent that has discovered that your child's IEP hasn't been followed. You've brought it to the attention of the school/teacher/service provider/IEP Team, trying for an informal resolution. NO LUCK! You've been certain to document in writing all instances of your child's IEP not being followed and all of your efforts for dispute resolution, and have brought this to the schools attention. NO LUCK STILL!

So... what can you do now? You feel stuck, discouraged, and on your own.

We'll lucky for us parents, IDEA law outlines steps we can take! Before I list these, know that parents can seek advice from special education advocates or attorneys who specialize in IDEA law. Legal professionals can guide parents through the process and represent them in formal proceedings if necessary. Also, as stated in the section above: If it's determined that the school has failed to provide services outlined in the IEP, parents can request compensatory services to make up for the missed or inadequate services.

That being said, here's your next steps according to IDEA:

[1] Formal Written Complaint: Parents can file a formal written complaint with the school district or the state education agency. This complaint should detail the specific aspects of the IEP that are not being implemented and request corrective action.

[2] State Complaint Procedures: States have specific procedures for handling complaints related to IDEA violations. Parents can file a complaint with the state education agency, which will investigate the matter.

[3] Mediation: Mediation involves a neutral third party who helps facilitate discussions between the school and the parents to resolve disputes and reach an agreement. It's a voluntary process and can be less adversarial and more collaborative than due process.

[4] Due Process Hearing: If informal methods fail to resolve the issue, parents can request a due process hearing. This is a formal legal procedure where an impartial hearing officer listens to both sides and makes a decision regarding the dispute.

[5] Mediation: Following an unsuccessful due process hearing, the next step could involve mediation.

​[6] Appeal to State or Federal Court: If mediation doesn't lead to a resolution, parents have the right to appeal the hearing officer's decision to a state or federal court. This legal action involves presenting the case to a judge who will review the evidence, arguments, and the hearing officer's decision.

One Important Thing You Should Know Before You Go To The IEP Meeting:

Go Into The Meeting With Correct Expectations: The IDEA law gives eligible children with disabilities rights to the specially designed instruction and individualized services and supports they need to benefit from public education. IDEA does not promise to give your child "THE BEST IN THE WORLD" or "WHATEVER YOU SAY, YOU GET, MOM & DAD!". So, go into the meetings with your expectations set correctly... and be prepared to advocate as an IEP Parent!

In the chaos of parenthood, self-care often takes a backseat. Yet, staying hydrated isn't just a personal indulgence; it's a necessity for navigating the beautiful chaos of raising a family. By ensuring you're well-hydrated, you're better equipped to tackle the challenges and cherish the joys that come with being a parent.

In the whirlwind of parenting, amidst the juggling acts and endless to-do lists, it's easy for one crucial aspect to slip through the cracks: hydration. While it might seem like a mundane concern, staying adequately hydrated isn't just a personal need; it's a cornerstone of well-being, especially for parents. Here's 4 reasons why we need to hydrate:

[1] The Parenting Marathon:
Parenting is an endurance sport—a marathon of multitasking, late nights, and constant motion. From the early mornings to the late-night cuddles, the energy demand is ceaseless. Amidst diaper changes, school runs, IEP meetings, therapist appointments, doctor appointments, work commitments, and managing household chores, it's simple to overlook the fundamental necessity of drinking enough water.

[2] Vitality Starts with Hydration:
Picture this: You're exhausted, drained by the day's activities, and your mind is scattered. Often, this state is not just due to lack of sleep but also dehydration. Water is the elixir that fuels our bodies and minds. Staying hydrated is essential for maintaining energy levels, clarity of thought, and overall well-being, which is specially important for your IEP meetings.

[3] Leading by Example:
Children learn by observation and imitation. By prioritizing hydration in your daily routine, you set a precedent for your kids. Demonstrating the importance of drinking water not only instills healthy habits but also showcases self-care as a vital aspect of life.  Kids also like to see their parents making good choices, so they don't have to worry about you!

[4] A Healthier You, A Happier Family:
Dehydration can manifest in various forms, affecting mood, concentration, and physical health. Being well-hydrated improves cognitive function, helping you make better decisions and handle the rollercoaster of parenthood more effectively. Moreover, it positively impacts your physical health, potentially reducing the likelihood of headaches, fatigue, and irritability.

Practical Tips for Parental Hydration:

- Water Bottle Buddy: Keep a water bottle handy at all times, making it a constant companion throughout your day. Become known as a person who always has a water bottle in hand!

- Routine Reminders: Set alarms or reminders on your phone to take sips of water periodically.

- Hydration Stations: Create designated water stations around your home, encouraging everyone in the family to drink water frequently.

- Infuse Some Flavor: If plain water isn’t appealing, infuse it with fruits or herbs for a refreshing twist.

​Parents... Consider this YOUR reminder to hydrdate... Do It! Do It NOW and Feel Better NOW! Grab your water bottle and fill it up!  Your Kids Are Counting On YOU!

We're going to DEEP DIVE into IDEA! We're talking:

​WHO, WHAT, WHEN, WHERE, & WHY IDEA Law was ever created!