Hi, I'm Tracie Kelly  

I Know What It Feels Like To Walk Into An IEP Meeting Feeling Completely Unprepared.

I'm a mom who learned the IEP process because I had to.  Now, I help other parents understand their child's IEP, prepare for their IEP meetings, and become informed, empowered, and confident members of their child's IEP team.

I'm a mom who learned the IEP process because I had to.  Now, I help other parents understand their child's IEP, prepare for their IEP meetings, and become informed, empowered, and confident members of their child's IEP team.

Hi, I'm Tracie Kelly  

I Know What It Feels Like To Walk Into An IEP Meeting Feeling Completely Unprepared.

I'm a mom who learned the IEP process because I had to.  Now, I help other parents understand their child's IEP, prepare for their IEP meetings, and become informed, empowered, and confident members of their child's IEP team.

I'm a mom who learned the IEP process because I had to.  Now, I help other parents understand their child's IEP, prepare for their IEP meetings, and become informed, empowered, and confident members of their child's IEP team.

My IEP Story

Started With My Son, Spencer.

Watch the video to find out why I created The IEP  Advantage.

When Spencer turned three years old, we began a journey I never expected to take, which included my first IEP meeting.  I was his mom.  I knew him better than anyone at that IEP meeting, but when it came to the IEP meeting process, everybody seemed to speak a different language, and I didn't understand!  I quickly learned that loving your child fiercely and understanding the special education system are two very different things. If I was going to be the advocate Spencer needed, I had a lot to learn. ​

Watch the video to find out why I created The IEP Advantage.

My IEP Story

Started With My Son, Spencer.

When Spencer turned three years old, we began a journey I never expected to take, which included my first IEP meeting.  I was his mom.  I knew him better than anyone at that IEP meeting, but when it came to the IEP meeting process, everybody seemed to speak a language I didn't understand.  I learned quickly that loving your child fiercely and understanding the special education system are two very different things.  If I was going to be the advocate Spencer needed, I had a lot to learn.

I didn't set out to become 

An "IEP Expert."  I was trying to help my own child.

I sat in those early IEP meetings feeling confused, intimidated, and overwhelmed.  I didn't know what questions to ask or what my options were.  I didn't understand what having autism meant for my son.  All I knew was that my child needed support and therapy, and I was determined to make sure he got the help he needed.   I left every one of those meetings in tears and anxiety, feeling in my gut that something wasn't right for my son.   ​I spent countless hours and sleepless nights researching, asking questions, and learning everything I could.  ​What I discovered could change everything- not just for Spencer, but for thousands of families like ours.

I realized parents needed their own system to prepare for the IEP meeting.  And it turns out that a few years later, I created the very system that parents needed.

I didn't set out to become 

An "IEP Expert." 
I was trying to
help my own child.

I sat in those early IEP meetings feeling confused,  intimidated, and overwhelmed.  I didn't know what questions to ask or what my options were.  I didn't understand what having autism meant for my son.  All I knew was that my child needed support and therapy, and I was determined to make sure he got the help he needed.   I left every one of those meetings in tears and anxiety, feeling in my gut that something wasn't right for my son.   ​I spent countless hours and sleepless nights researching, asking questions, and learning everything I could.  ​What I discovered could change everything- not just for Spencer, but for thousands of families like ours.

I realized parents needed their own system to prepare for the IEP meeting.  And it turns out that a few years later, I created the very system that parents needed.

And Then...

Something Pretty Amazing Happened...

Spencer is now a young adult who advocates for others, speaks with confidence, and is building a life built with purpose and independence.

The school years weren't always easy, but having an IEP helped open doors to a future that we once worried might never be possible.

Spencer is now a young adult who advocates for others, speaks with confidence, and is building a life built with purpose and independence.

The school years weren't always easy, but having an IEP helped open doors to a future that we once worried might never be possible.

I created

The IEP Advantage For The Parent
I used to be.

  • The parent sitting at the kitchen table with an IEP document, wondering what half it means.
  • The parent up late Googling about the IEP the night before the meeting.
  • The parent who doesn't understand how their child's disability gets supported in school.
  • The parent who knows that something isn't quite right, but can't pinpoint what it is or what questions to ask.
  • And the parent who wants to participate in their child's IEP meeting as an informed member of the IEP team- not simply sign paperwork they don't understand and have blind faith that everything will be done properly.

my mission

The IEP Advantage helps parents
​understand the IEP meeting process,
prepare for meetings, track their
child's progress, and participate
more confidently throughout
the school year. 

I created

The IEP Advantage For The Parent I used to be.

  • The parent sitting at the kitchen table with an IEP document, wondering what half it means.
  • The parent up late Googling about the IEP the night before the meeting.
  • The parent who doesn't understand how their child's disability gets supported in school.
  • The parent who knows that something isn't quite right, but can't pinpoint what it is or what questions to ask.
  • And the parent who wants to participate in their child's IEP meeting as an informed member of the IEP team- not simply sign paperwork they don't understand and have blind faith that everything will be done properly.

my mission

The IEP Advantage helps parents
​understand the IEP meeting process, prepare for meetings, track their child's progress, and participate more confidently throughout the school year. 

You're not the only parent

trying to figure
this out.

That's why I created the IEP Support Group for Parents (Inside Facebook)- a safe, supportive community of thousands of parents who are there to support each other!  We share, we learn, and we lift each other up every step of the way.  

You're not the only parent

trying to figure
this out.

That's why I created the IEP Support Group for Parents (Inside Facebook)- a safe, supportive community of thousands of parents who are there to support each other!  We share, we learn, and we lift each other up every step of the way.  

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